The Energizer Bunny

Church of Dormition, Jerusalem

Church of Dormition, Jerusalem

Acts of Apostles 2:1-11

So just a little background! In today’s first reading, the Jews from all over the world are gathered in Jerusalem to celebrate the Feast of Pentecost. We are celebrating today the Feast of Pentecost. But they are not the same! For the Jews, there are 3 feasts know as pilgrimage feasts, days when they travel to the Temple in Jerusalem. One is Sukkoth, a fall harvest festival also known as Feast of Booths/Tents, remembering when the Israelites traveled in the desert. Another is the Feast of Passover, celebrating leaving their lives as slaves in Egypt. And then 50 days after Passover, Pentecost! Also known as Shavuoth, it is a spring harvest festival celebrating God giving the Law to Moses on Mt. Sinai.

So the Jewish Feast of Pentecost 50 days after Passover. And the Christian Feast of Pentecost, celebrating the coming down of the Holy Spirit on the disciples, 50 days after Easter!

So now let me tell you a little story!

A farmer had some puppies he needed to sell. He painted a sign advertising the 4 pups, and set about nailing it to a post on the edge of his yard. As he was driving the last nail into the post, he felt tug on his overalls. He looked down into the eyes of a little boy. “Mister,” he said, “I want to buy one of your puppies.”

“Well,” said the farmer, as he rubbed the sweat of the back of his neck, “these puppies come from fine parents and cost a good deal of money.” The boy dropped his head for a moment. Then reaching deep into his pocket, he pulled out a handful of change and held it up to the farmer. “I’ve got thirty-nine cents. Is that enough to take a look?”

“Sure,” said the farmer. And with that he let out a whistle. “Here Dolly!” he called. Out from the doghouse and down ramp ran Dolly followed by four little balls of fur. The little boy pressed his face against the chain link fence. His eyes danced with delight. As the dogs made their way to the fence, the little boy noticed something else stirring inside the doghouse.

Slowly another little ball appeared, this one noticeably smaller. Down the ramp it slid. Then in a awkward manner, the little pup began hobbling toward the others, doing its best to catch up…. “I want that one,” the little boy said, pointing to the runt.

The farmer knelt down at the boy’s side and said, “Son, you don’t want that puppy. He will never be able to run and play with you like these other dogs would.” With that the little boy stepped back from the fence, reached down, and began rolling up one leg of his trousers. In doing so he revealed a steel brace running down both sides of his leg attaching itself to a specially made shoe.

Looking back up at the farmer, he said, “You see sir, I don’t run too well myself, and he will need someone who understands.”

Wow! With all that he has to deal with, with all the activities that his illness prevents him from enjoying, look at the energy and enthusiasm that little boy displays! So much joy and compassion that he goes out of his way to help another living being have a good life! He sees beyond his own limitations and sees only possibilities!

Quite a contrast with the Apostles in the first reading! They are all gathered together in one place. Think about that! They are still in hiding! 50 days after Easter and they are still huddled together in one room! The doors are locked out of their fear of being arrested and put to death, like Jesus. Even though He has appeared to them a number of times, they are still living in fear, afraid to go out into the world.

And then all that changes! A great wind! Tongues of fire! The pouring down of the Holy Spirit! And they leave the safety of that room, go out into the world and begin to spread the Word! They begin the Mission! Like that little boy, they look past their own shortcomings, their own limitations! By the power of the Holy Spirit, they become energized! Filled with the Spirit, they speak in tongues.

The question for us today is – what energizes us! Is it our family? Our job or career? The birth of our first child or grandchild? Our favorite hobby or sport? What is it that enlivens us and gives us that ‘energizer bunny’ burst of enthusiasm?

What about our faith? By our own Baptism and confirmation, we have all been filled with the Holy Spirit! That same Spirit that energized the disciples on this Feast of Pentecost! Are we still huddled together in that little room, fearful of the world, afraid and lacking in hope and faith?

Or does your faith energize you? Does it fill you with courage and hope to go out into the world and share the message of the Gospel? Are we like that little boy who sees beyond his own limitations and, in compassion and faith, goes out of his way to tend to the needs of others?

Come Holy Spirit, fill the hearts of your faithful and kindle in them the fire of your love. Send forth your Spirit and they shall be created. And You shall renew the face of the earth.

Follow Me!

Wailing Wall, Jerusalem

Wailing Wall, Jerusalem

John 21:20-25

My all-time favorite comic strip is Calvin and Hobbes. Even today, I continue to read it and chuckle! And I still remember the last original strip that was published on December 31, 1995. Calvin and Hobbes have jumped on a sled after a snowfall and Calvin says “Let’s go exploring.” It was an end and there was sadness. But it also was a beginning, a hope and a promise of new adventures and experiences.

We see something similar in today’s Gospel. These are the very last lines in the Gospel of John, the end of his ‘good news’. Yes, there is sadness; these are Jesus’ final words. And yet there is also hope and promise with Jesus’ words “Follow Me.”

The invitation is unmistakable! The challenge is set before the Apostles! And before us, His disciples as well! Come, follow Me!! Follow in My footsteps! Follow My example!

So what are you waiting for? Let’s go exploring!

Great Spirit, help me to walk a hopeful road today!

Balancing the Books

Church of Peter Primacy, Sea of Galilee

Church of Peter Primacy, Sea of Galilee

John 21:15-19

Have you ever hit a baseball through a window? How about putting that dent in the family car? Or what about breaking Mom’s favorite flower vase? I’m sure we all have stories like this! But what about paying for it?? Sometimes the payback was a punishment of some sort. Sometimes it was literally payback - paying for that broken window or the car repair or replacing Mom’s vase. Somehow we made some sort of restitution. Somehow we repaired the damage not only to the object but also to the relationship. Somehow we rebuilt that trust!

As Jesus appears to the disciples for almost the last time before His Ascension, He asks Peter “Do you love me?” Not once, but 3 times! A bit of overkill?? Maybe not! Even Peter gets a bit distressed. But maybe there is good reason here. It was not that long ago that Peter repeated something 3 times. I don’t know Him!! He denied knowing Jesus 3 times in the courtyard.

Imagine how Peter must be feeling carrying around the guilt for those words! And what does Jesus do? Does He yell or get angry? No, He compassionately offers Peter a chance at repentance and reconciliation! 3 times he denied; so 3 times he professes his love for Jesus.

This moment gives us hope! It reminds us that every single time we falter, every time we act sinfully, God also gives us an opportunity to make things right. Every time I act like there is no God, no golden rule, then God is still there providing us an opportunity to return to His grace. At every moment in our life, God offers us a chance at reconciliation!

But words are just the first step. Reconciliation also involves action. Jesus challenges Peter to also demonstrate his love by caring for others. Feed my lambs; feed my sheep. It is not enough to say I love you; put those words into action!

Every day we are given the chance to reconcile with the Father, to reunite with Him in love and friendship. And every day we are given so many chances to act on those words of love, to restore our relationship with God and with each other.

Can’t We All Just Get Along?

Chapel of Tears, Jerusalem

Chapel of Tears, Jerusalem

John 17:20-26

Today Jesus continues His prayer to the Father and He prays for one thing – Unity! That we all may be one just as He is One with the Father.

We have heard it before: one Lord, one faith, one Baptism, one church, Pardon me for saying this but I’m not seeing much unity these past few months (or even longer). We are so at odds with each other, politically, socially, spiritually. Everyone seems on edge, ready to pick a fight or argue about anything. We take sides and then dig in, to the point of demeaning the character of others. We look for differences instead of appreciating what we have in common. We lump people into groups instead of appreciating their uniqueness. In short, we seem to be doing the exact opposite of what Jesus is praying for. Boy, do we all need a good infusion of the Spirit!

How can we ever reach unity? The answer, I believe, is in the nature of Jesus’ relationship with the Father. It is a relationship of love! They are united in love. And Jesus’ prayer is that we be one with each other just as Jesus is one with the Father in love. Jesus wants us to realize that we are all a gift from God and we are called to share that gift, to be that gift to others.

Do you want unity? Do you want us all to get along, to treat each other as brothers and sisters, as children of God? Then we have to build relationships of love, just as Jesus and the Father. One Lord, one Faith, one Baptism, one Love that unites us all

The Big Picture!

On Shores of Sea of Galilee

On Shores of Sea of Galilee

John 17:11-19

You can’t see the forest for the trees! You’re missing the BIG picture! We have all heard it before, probably from our parents! Sometimes we get so caught up in the minutiae and the details that we miss the overall point! Don’t get me wrong; the details are important! But we also need to reach some understanding with a wider view.

Jesus’ words in today’s Gospel are directed toward truth, joy, our role in the world and the reality that the disciples will face rejection from the world. But there is a bigger picture here!

Jesus is praying to His Father for His disciples! Let me repeat that. Jesus is praying to His Father on behalf of His disciples! He knows they are going to feel abandoned and lost, alone and fearful. And He prays for them! To His Father! Does that sink in?

Haven’t we all felt lost or at sea? Haven’t we all felt crushed and terrified? Haven’t we all felt alone? Don’t you think He sees that? Don’t you think Jesus prays to the Father on our behalf as well?

And isn’t that the real BIG picture? Jesus loves us, cares for us and protects us! Yes, even we feel completely alone, He even prays to His Father FOR us!

Time’s Up!

Dome of the Rock, Jerusalem

Dome of the Rock, Jerusalem

John 17:1-11

In yesterday’s Gospel reading, Jesus tells His disciples “The hour is coming”, a phrase He uses quite a number of times throughout the Gospels. Even at the Feast at Cana when Mary wants Him to do something about the wine shortage, He tells her that His hour has not yet come. Today things change! Today He prays to His Father “the hour has come!” In a matter of hours, He will be arrested, tortured and put to death. Jesus’ hour has come, the time to glorify God His Father, to accomplish the work He was given, to give eternal life to all who believe.

Today’s picture shows the Dome of the Rock on the Temple Mount. Sadly over these past few days violence and bloodshed have broken out on that holy spot as well as throughout Jerusalem, Gaza and the entire country of Israel. It is a reminder to us all that peace does not come easy, that the world continues to struggle for justice for all. It is a reminder that we are all called to work those same virtues of peace and justice even when it hurts or it is inconvenient.

St. Paul reminds us in the first reading: “The Holy Spirit has been warning me that imprisonment and hardships await me. Yet I consider life of no importance to me, if only I may finish my course and the ministry that I received from the Lord Jesus, to bear witness to the Gospel of God’s grace.”

So what about us? What about today? What will we do to glorify God today? What can we do to show our Christian faith today? Not tomorrow or the day after? Today! And if not today, then when? What are we waiting for? Time is Up! The time is Now! Rise and shine! Give God your glory! And bear witness to the Gospel!

Deo Gratias

Deacon Ordination, May 17, 2015

Deacon Ordination, May 17, 2015

John 16:29-33

“I have told you this so that you might have peace in me.

In the world you will have trouble,

but take courage, I have conquered the world.”

Today’s Gospel offers all of us words of hope and comfort. Jesus is sharing His final words with His disciples, His friends. He knows what is to come. In a matter of hours, He faces suffering and death. And yet His focus is completely on the Apostles! And He reminds them that, even when they are scattered, they are not alone; they never will be! He will continue to guide them, encourage them and inspire them! Whatever hardships they will face, they will find peace in Jesus!

6 years ago today, I was ordained a permanent deacon! 6 years ago today I put on this stole (the one in the pictures) for the very first time! It was a gift from my wife Ginger. But it is also a reminder to me that, throughout the 4 years of formation, of classes and exams and oral presentations and practicums, I did not reach ordination all by myself. And these past 5 years of serving as a Deacon were also not spent alone!

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All of you, my family, Ginger, Jaime, Josh, Tyler and Nate, Ginger’s mom and dad, my parents, sisters and brother, my St. Kateri family and my St. Robert’s family. You have all supported, prayed for, guided, challenged and inspired me. You have never let me feel alone. You have always reminded me that God is with us always, in His commandments, in His love and in His Spirit of wisdom.

Miigwetch!! Thank you, one and all! May we all, in the words of today’s Gospel, be a source of peace and courage to all those in need!

A Good Kick in the Pants!

Chapel of the Ascension, Jerusalem

Chapel of the Ascension, Jerusalem

Acts 1:1-11

There was a Pencil Maker who always took each pencil aside just before putting it into a box.

“There are 5 things you need to know,” he told the pencil, “Before I send you out into the world. Always remember them and never forget, and you will become the best pencil you can be.”

One: “You will be able to do many great things, but only if you allow yourself to be held in someone’s hand.”

Two: “You will experience a painful sharpening from time to time, but you’ll need it to become a better pencil.”

Three: “You will be able to correct any mistakes you might make.”

Four: “The most important part of you will always be what’s inside.”

And Five: “On every surface you are used on, you must leave your mark. No matter what the condition, you must continue to write.”

In a sense, we are all pencils – capable of great creativity, artistry and thought. But we are also very human; we can and we will make mistakes! But we all possess the ability to correct those mistakes. But all of that doesn’t matter a bit if we don’t pick up that pencil and do something with it. If we leave it sitting on the desk, nothing happens. If we let fear or worry or hesitancy prevent us from picking it up and doing something with it, it is useless and so is our life!

Sometimes this lack of movement is not about a lack of motivation; it’s more about uncertainty of how to move forward. It’s more about what do I do now? We spend years in school with exams and projects and grades and then we graduate and, for some of us, we hit that point right after the ceremony where we ask ourselves – now what?? We all need that kick in the pants!

Or we get that job, after filling out the application, going through the interview and the training, and we sit down at our desk on that first day and we suddenly realize – now what do I do?

I remember my first week of teaching high school religion. After all those years of educational classes and months of preparing for that first week, I had put together class notes that I was sure would last a good 2 weeks of classes. I barely made it through the first day. Now what do I do?? I needed a good kick in the pants!

The apostles are pretty much in the same boat in today’s first reading from the Acts of the Apostles. Jesus is giving them essentially His final instructions. You will be My witnesses to the ends of the earth. You will make disciples of all nations. You will baptize in the name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit and you will teach them My commandments! And you will not be alone – I will be with you; the Spirit will be with you!

And then Jesus ascends into heaven before their eyes. And what do the disciples do? They just stand there gaping up into the sky. You can almost hear them saying to themselves – oh geez, He’s gone! Now what do I do? Well, I’m not gonna go preach first; I’ll let someone else go first. Kind of like Mikey in the Life cereal commercial – I’m not gonna try it, you try it!

It takes 2 angels to appear and knock some sense into them. Why are you just standing around looking up into the sky? Jesus has gone but will return later. So get moving, get busy! He left you a mission! Get to it!

We all know how hard it is to take that first step – first day at a new job, first day of high school or college, moving away from home. We all know how difficult it is when we start crafting that huge research paper, sitting down at the computer or picking up that pencil! How to start! What will be that first sentence! How to begin and take that first step!

We all have that same mission – to be disciples and missionaries, to spread the Word. We are all called to get moving, to take that first step no matter how nervous or unsure we are! We are all called to live out our Baptismal promises to witness to our faith, in our words, in our actions, in our life! As Jesus reminds us today, be not afraid; you are not alone! You have all been baptized by the Holy Spirit!

So consider this a group kick in the pants – don’t just sit there doing nothing, waiting for someone else to lead the way. Get Moving! Pick up that pencil! Be inspired! Be creative! Be filled with the Spirit! We all have work to do!

I’ve Got a Better Idea

Rosary Procession, Nazareth

Rosary Procession, Nazareth

John 16:23-28

Jesus continues yesterday’s theme of the importance of prayer – whatever you ask of the Father, He will give you. Guess I should have saved yesterday’s homily for today, eh? 😉

Jesus reminds us that God truly is Our Father; He is the one we pray to when we need comfort, help or support. But since He is God, He does already know what we will ask Him. Isn’t that just like a parent? How often have we run to our parents to ask for something and they already knew what we were going to ask for? And God does answer us but not always in the way we expect or want.

My favorite sci-fi show of all time is Doctor Who. It’s been around since 1963 and follows the adventures of an alien who travels throughout time and space in a British police box that he calls the ‘Tardis’. Many times it is more a mis-adventure than an adventure. And from time to time, he complains that the Tardis never takes him where he WANTS to go. And the Tardis wisely responded to him “Yes, but I always take you where you NEED to go.”

Isn’t that the same with God? God hears all our prayers. God answers all our prayers but in unexpected ways. Like the Father He is, God answers us with giving us what we need and not always what we want. Like a loving parent, He knows what is best for us and always finds a way to point us in the right direction, along the path that leads us back to Him.

The Luck of the Draw

Synagogue at Capernaum

Synagogue at Capernaum

John 15:9-17

There was one time when I was teaching World Religions where I did the selection for their major group project. So I just threw all their names into a basket and randomly pulled them out. I thought it would eliminate the pain of the kids having to choose which friends to pair up with and which friends not! It was a horrible idea and I never tried it again. Choosing by lots, by sheer chance, is not always the best option!

We celebrate today the Feast of St. Matthias, Apostle. And here is what we know about Matthias – he was selected by lot to take Judas’ place as one of the Twelve. That’s it; that’s all we know. No background! No info on his missionary work or even his death, nothing! All we have is a roll of the dice!

So was that all just a matter of chance? Sheer blind luck? Today’s Gospel tells us that was not the case. Jesus tells His Apostles “It was not you who chose me, but I who chose you”. Luck had nothing to do with it! It was divinely inspired. God was at work as He always is. We like to think our parents made this conscious decision to have us baptized. Or we believe that we make this choice to receive the Sacraments. But in reality, it wasn’t our choice at all. It was our response! The choice was God’s! God chose us as His children out of love. What we see as a personal choice is really a response to God’s call!

Consider too that, before the Apostles drew lots, they prayed! They knew this would be important; they knew the choice would ultimately not be random. They prayed for God’s assistance and inspiration. They left nothing to chance!

In 3 days, on Monday, May 17, I will celebrate the 6th anniversary of my ordination as a Permanent Deacon. (Time flies!) Way back in my first year of deacon formation, I mistakenly kept thinking about whether this is something I want to do, something I can choose to do. I was so wrong. It wasn’t about what I wanted. It was all about discerning whether this is what God wants me to do. Is this where God is calling me? And how do I respond? And, of course, I prayed! A lot!!!

God calls each and every one of us to follow Him, to follow His commandments, and to love one another. What we have to discern is how to answer God’s call! What is our response?

In a Little While!

Church of Dormition, Jerusalem

Church of Dormition, Jerusalem

John 16:16-20

Let’s take a little trip down memory lane. Are we there yet? When will it stop hurting? When can I go outside and play? When can I have dessert? Can we leave now? Can I open my Christmas presents? Is time-out over? We have all had those moments of questioning and sheer impatience! And the standard parental response? In a little while!! Seriously, a ‘little’ while? What exactly does that mean?

And yet these are Jesus’ words to His Apostles in today’s Gospel. I am going away but just for a little while. A little while you will not see and again a little while and you will! The Apostles are understandably perplexed and confused! What is He talking about? What does He mean? How long? Why? Why now? Why can’t You give us a straight answer?

We are such an impatient people! We can’t bear being left on hold waiting for service! We hate waiting in line at the grocery store! We can’t accept that sometimes things don’t happen when or as quickly as we would like. We want answers now; we want certainty!

Even Jesus understands! He responds to the Apostles with kindness and compassion, with hope! You will weep and mourn but your grief will turn to joy! Be patient! Be hopeful! Believe! Those words are meant not only for the disciples, but also for us!

My Creator, hold my hand and guide me today. Teach me patience to trust in You when I become anxious for tomorrow!

Can You Hear Me Now?

Basilica of the Annunciation, Nazareth

Basilica of the Annunciation, Nazareth

John 16:12-15

Sometimes we all talk too much. Sometimes we think we have a lot to say! So today let’s tone it down and keep it as simple as possible and, in the process, give ourselves the opportunity to close our mouths and open our ears!

Jesus continues His Last Supper discourse today and there is one line in today’s Gospel that resonates with me. “I have much more to tell you!” Imagine that! Jesus still has much to say to us, even today! But it’s hard to hear if we keep talking! So sometime today, slow down, calm yourself, and quiet yourself! Step away from the all the noise and chatter and just listen! Listen to Jesus! Listen to the Spirit! Open your ears and your hearts! Listen to the Word of God!

Grief!

Via Dolorosa, Jerusalem

Via Dolorosa, Jerusalem

John 16:5-11

Grief! Loss! The pain of separation or sickness! In one way or another, we have all felt these emotions at some point these past 14 months. Maybe we lost a family member or friend to Covid. Maybe we felt the anguish of not being able to pay our last respects to a loved one. Maybe we couldn’t hold their hand when they passed. Maybe we were the ones who were sick and deeply felt the absence of family to offer their care and concern. Maybe it was the death of a dear friend whom we never got around to re-connecting with! Maybe things happened too late or too soon!

The Apostles, in today’s Gospel, are also feeling the depths of grief. They’ve been with Jesus for 3 years. Traveled from town to town on foot, shared meals together, witnessed countless miracles, raising the dead, casting out demons, calming storms. 3 years of learning from Him, listening to His parables, His instructions, and His verbal battles with the Pharisees! And in just hours, He will be arrested, tortured and put to death. They are devastated! Jesus says it Himself – grief has filled their hearts!

And yet, in the midst of all that sadness, Jesus still comforts them. He reminds them that this is not the end, that the Advocate will be coming. The Spirit will come and fill their hearts. And so it is for us. Even in the middle of the night, the Spirit will tend to our wounds and heal our distress. Even in our grief, the Spirit is with us.

Testify!

Vesting, Holy Name Cathedral

Vesting, Holy Name Cathedral

John 15:26 – 16:4a

This past Saturday we attended the Ordination Rite to the Diaconate for our good friend Johnny and 21 other candidates. As their Deacon mentor couple, we have journeyed with Johnny and his wife, Susan, for the last 5 years of their formation. As a special honor, I was blessed to be Johnny’s vestor, clothing him in his stole and dalmatic for the first time.

It was a beautiful liturgy and it brought back memories of my own ordination, whose 6th anniversary we will celebrate next Monday, May 17. We knelt before the bishop and pledged our obedience to him. He laid his hands on us and prayed for the Holy Spirit to come down upon us. We put on the stole and dalmatic of a Deacon for the first time. And then we received the Gospel from the bishop with these words:

Receive the Book of the Gospel whose herald you have become.

Believe what you read. Teach what you believe. Practice what you teach!

Throughout my ordination and Johnny’s, we pledged, we promised and we testified! Much like what we hear in today’s Gospel! The Spirit of truth who proceeds from the Father, he will testify to me. And you also testify, because you have been with me from the beginning.

The Spirit will testify and we will testify to the truth! Like today’s Gospel – All Words! All promises! A choice was made, Yes! A response to the Father was given, Yes! But the actual obedience, the real carrying out of those words – ordination was just the beginning. Those newly ordained deacons on Saturday are only just practicing what they preached! They are only just following up those words with actions. As permanent deacons, we are all called to believe, teach and practice the Faith! We are called to be heralds of the Gospel in our words and in our actions, whether we are newly ordained or grizzled veterans!

Filled with the Spirit, we are all called to testify to the Truth, to the Savior of the world! May that same Spirit grant us strength for the journey and zeal for our ministry!

Real Friendship

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John 15:9-17

I found this story a while ago! We all know what it’s like to get that phone call in the middle of the night. This night’s call was no different. Jerking up to the ringing summons, I focused on the red illuminated numbers of my clock. Midnight! Panicky thoughts filled my sleep-dazed mind as I grabbed the receiver.

“Hello?” My heart pounded; I gripped the phone tighter and eyed my wife, who was now turning to face my side of the bed. “Daddy?” I could hardly hear the whisper over the static. But my thoughts immediately went to my daughter. When the desperate sound of a young crying voice became clearer on the line, I grabbed for my wife and squeezed her wrist.

“Daddy, I know it’s late, but don’t…don’t say anything, until I finish. And before you ask, yes, I’ve been drinking. I nearly ran off the road a few miles back, and…”

I drew in a sharp shallow breath, released my wife and pressed my hand against my forehead. Sleep still fogged my mind, and I attempted to fight back the panic. Something wasn’t right.

“And I got so scared. All I could think about was how it would hurt you if a policeman came to your door and said I’d been killed. I want…to come home. I know running away was wrong. I know you’ve been worried sick. I should have called you days ago, but I was afraid…afraid…”

Sobs of deep-felt emotion flowed from the receiver and poured into my heart. Immediately I pictured my daughter’s face in my mind and my fogged senses seemed to clear. “I think…”

“No! Please let me finish! Please!” She pleaded, not so much in anger but in desperation. I paused and tried to think of what to say. Before I could go on, she continued, “Daddy, I know I shouldn’t be drinking, but I’m scared, Daddy. So scared!”

The voice broke again and I bit into my lip, feeling my own eyes fill with moisture. “Are you still there? Please don’t hang up on me! I need you. I feel so alone.” I clutched the phone and stared at my wife, seeking guidance. “I’m here, I wouldn’t hang up,” I said.

“You know, back there on the road, after I got the car under control, I saw this phone booth and it was as if I could hear you preaching about people shouldn’t drink and drive. So I called a taxi. I want to come home.”

“That’s good, Honey,” I said as relief filled my chest. My wife came closer, sat down beside me and laced her fingers through mine. I knew from her touch that she thought I was doing and saying the right thing. “But you know, I think I can drive now.”

“No!” I snapped. My muscles stiffened, and I tightened the clasp on my wife’s hand. “Please, wait for the taxi. Don’t hang up on me until the taxi gets there.” “I just want to come home, Daddy.” “I know. But do this for your Daddy. Wait for the taxi, please.”

I listened to the silence in fear. When I didn’t hear her answer, I bit into my lip and closed my eyes. Somehow I had to stop her from driving. “There’s the taxi, now.”

Only when I heard someone in the background asking about a Yellow Cab did I feel my tension easing. “I’m coming home, Daddy.” There was a click and the phone went silent.

My wife wrapped her arms around me and rested her chin on the top of my head. I let her hold me for several moments, then I pulled back and stared back at her. She studied me for a second, then asked, “Do you think she’ll ever know she dialed the wrong number?”

What love! What compassion! What honesty and guidance! What concern and caring for another! In the middle of the night, safely in bed and sound asleep! And all this for a stranger! And if you really think about it, aren’t those the same qualities we look for in others and in ourselves when we call someone a friend!

We visited this same Gospel earlier this week so pardon me for repeating myself but I think this is something that bears repeating!

In today’s Gospel Jesus tells the disciples “I call you friends for so indeed you are”. Friends!! Not simply followers or disciples! Not subjects or worshippers! Not even mere companions! Friends! It’s a good opportunity for us today to reflect on what it means to be a friend, what it means to have a best friend. Friendship, real friendship, is a relationship built on love and not convenience, based on the depth of that love and not frequency of contact.

At its core, a real friend is someone who accepts you as you are, not as they want you to be. A real friend is someone who has seen you at your worst and still stands beside you. A real friend loves you, warts and all. A real friend sees the best in you even when you refuse to see it yourself.

Jesus calls His disciples friends, He has seen them at their worst; they doubt Him, they deny Him, they abandon Him. And He still calls them friends. He still loves them enough to lay down His life for them. And not just for the disciples but for each of us. He has seen all of us at our worst, even when we doubted, even when we turned our back on Him. And yet He still loves us, still walks with us, still recognizes the good in us.

With compassion and love, with care and concern, with honesty and support, Jesus calls us FRIEND, each and every one of us! And He challenges us to be that same kind of friend to others, no matter who, no matter the time of day or circumstance or inconvenience!

If we really think about it, maybe that wasn’t a wrong number after all!

The Long and Winding Road

Palm Sunday Road, Jerusalem

Palm Sunday Road, Jerusalem

John 15:18-21

By my count, I have led or co-led about 10 Kairos retreats, a 3-4 day intense retreat where the day usually extended well into the night, sometimes to 2am. And that doesn’t include the weeks of preparation and guidance for the student leaders. Trust me, sleep was a very rare occurrence. But the experience and the effect were always breath-taking and life-changing. All that time and effort, all that work, was worth it!

But no doubt, it was exhausting work! And it is a reminder to us all that being a Christian, living a Christian life, is work! We will meet criticism, doubt, resistance, even outright anger in the process of llving a life of service to others and love for our Brother Jesus.

It’s not easy to be Christian, to be Catholic, not in the world we live in. But, let’s face it, even before the corona virus appeared, this secular world wanted no part of what we believe in. Truth? Honesty? Kindness? Selflessness? Charity? Focusing on possessions and not others? Simple common decency? Looking out for the poor, the downtrodden, the neglected? Nope, nope, this world wants none of that!

Jesus saw that attitude even in the world that He and the Apostles lived in. “The world hates you and it will persecute you because of me.” Things have certainly not changed. It would be so easy to just give in and give up and follow the crowd. Take the easy road! But the only real benefit to the easy road is that it’s easy, nothing more. It is ultimately unfulfilling.

It boils down to a question philosophers and theologians have debated for centuries -Are we bodies with a soul or souls with a body? Catch the difference? What matter more – the body or the soul? Jesus answers this question in today’s Gospel. You do not belong to this world! So don’t get so attached to it. You belong to God; your destiny is the kingdom of heaven. This world is temporary; life with Me is forever.

So go ahead, be radical! Be counter-cultural! Be Christian! Be kind today, help out a stranger. Be truthful and decent! Love your neighbor! Will some people hate you for it? Certainly! Will you be persecuted for taking a ‘neighborly’ approach to others? Absolutely! But that’s the point. We are not called to change ourselves to fit the world. We are called to change the world, to Christify the world!

Stuck!

Church at Mt. Carmel

Church at Mt. Carmel

John 15:12-17

Remember when we were younger and the value of the word “friend” was measured more by quantity and not quality? When popularity was determined by how many ‘friends’ you invited to your birthday party? And then late on in life, we began to discover the meaning of true friendship. We found and we became a true friend, someone to trust completely, someone to confide in and rely on, someone we could be ourselves with, warts and all!

In today’s Gospel Jesus tells the disciples “I call you friends for so indeed you are”. Friends!! Not simply followers or disciples! Not subjects or worshippers! Not even mere companions! Friends! It’s a good opportunity for us today to reflect on what it means to be a friend, what it means to have a best friend. Friendship, real friendship, is a relationship built on love and not convenience, based on the depth of that love and not frequency of contact.

At its core, a real friend is someone who accepts you as you are, not as they want you to be. A real friend is someone who has seen you at your worst and still stands beside you. A real friend loves you, warts and all. A real friend sees the best in you even when you refuse to see it yourself.

Jesus calls His disciples friends, He has seen them at their worst; they doubt Him, they deny Him, they abandon Him. And He still calls them friends. He still loves them enough to lay down His life for them. And not just for the disciples but for each of us. He has seen all of us at our worst, even when we doubted, even when we turned our back on Him. And yet He still loves us, still walks with us, still recognizes the good in us.

Ginger, my wife, my best friend, always has this one word to remind me of our relationship – STUCK!! We are stuck to each other, stuck with each other, in every good sense imaginable. It means, no matter what, I am right here by your side, we are stuck together; we face whatever life throws at us TOGETHER! And so Jesus reminds us today – you’ve got a friend in Me! And I’m not going anywhere! STUCK!

I’ve Got Joy!

The Hills Outside Nazareth

The Hills Outside Nazareth

John 15: 9-11

What in your life brings you joy? That was how I ended yesterday/s reflection and it seems only fitting, given today’s Gospel, to examine that question a bit more closely.

What gives you joy? Seriously, what honestly gives you joy? And I don’t mean simple putting a smile on your face happiness; I mean brimming with excitement straight from the heart JOY! Was it holding your new-born child in your arms for the first time? Was it marrying your soulmate? Was it that hard-earned offer for the job of your dreams? Was it that once in a lifetime trip? What was it? Can you even put it into words?

Can we even define the word? Is it something that takes you back to that song – I’ve got joy, joy, joy down in my heart? Is that it? Something that stirs deep down in our heart, our soul, and then just bursts out of us?

Jesus speaks of joy today in the Gospel - “I have told you this so that my joy might be in you and

your joy might be complete.” Imagine that, complete joy! Sadly the joy we usually think about is not very complete. It is short-lived, temporary; it doesn’t last! It is a human joy that cannot compare! Jesus is talking about a joy that fills our soul to the point that it energizes us, fills us with the Spirit! It is lasting and complete! It is the joy of Christ dwelling within us! It is the experience of God’s unending love!

So I will ask one more time! Where do you find joy in your life? Where is the joy, the complete joy that you are seeking?

Pruning

Farming along the West Bank

Farming along the West Bank

John 15:1-8

Over the past few years (although certainly not this past year), my wife and I have been able to dine at some pretty amazing restaurants, some of them Top Chef and even a few Michelin starred! The difficult part of each of those experiences has to be the decision of what to order. The menu sounded so wonderful that we almost wanted to order one of everything. And that certainly wasn’t practical or economical. So we made choices! It reminds me of the meals we enjoyed when we were on pilgrimage in the Holy Land. Trust me; we did not go hungry. The hotels we stayed at provided a lavish (and that is a very tame description) banquet. Tables upon tables devoted to salads, main entrée, sides, breads, and desserts – each with their own station/section in a huge dining room. It was mouth-watering and overwhelming! And as much as we wanted to sample a bit of everything, we had to make choices!

Today’s Gospel should be very familiar; we just heard it on Sunday! And at that time, we reflected on how, like branches on a vine, we are all connected to God and to each other. So let’s focus on one single word today – Pruning! Jesus makes it clear that, in order for branches to grow and bear fruit, they must undergo constant pruning, removing dead and unproductive branches!

So too with us! Just like with a buffet dinner, we cannot eat everything! We cannot do everything! We need to make choices, choices that will help us grow and be productive disciples. Sometimes the pruning involves relationships, sometimes activities! In either case, we are called to set priorities. What/who is there in your life that needs to be cut away? What is the dead wood in your life? What/who saps your faith and your resolve? What drags you down and away from the table of the Lord? What is there in your life that needs careful cultivation and care? What brings us closer to the Kingdom? What in your life brings you joy?

Great Spirit, show me what in my life I need to let go and what I need to nurture!

Peace and Quiet

Church of Holy Sepulchre, Jerusalem

Church of Holy Sepulchre, Jerusalem

John 14:27-31

One of the most difficult things I ever had to do was teaching high school boys how to meditate! It was difficult but rewarding, required a lot of patience to get them to slow down, quiet down – not something teenagers are accustomed to do. And then all it took to destroy the moment was for one kid to sneeze and the entire class, one by one, would respond with ‘God bless you.”, more for effect than compassion

We always talk about how much we want peace and quiet and yet, when we get it, too often we get impatient and uncomfortable with it. We tell ourselves we ought to be doing something or we let ourselves get distracted. We seem to be uneasy when all is calm and quiet; we just can’t handle silence. .

But too often, we seem to define peace as the ‘lack’ or ‘absence’ of something else. Peace is the absence of war, the lack of noise or the absence of stress in our lives; peace is getting away from everything and everyone. Given that perspective, then, peace is a sort of emptiness and not a presence of anything. Is that it? Is that all there is? If so, then peace is just contentment, freedom from distractions; it comes across as being very passive and very temporary. We get away somewhere or we find a cozy corner away from people to get some peace and quiet. It seems lonely and ultimately unfulfilling.

That is not the peace that Jesus speaks of today! “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give it to you.” It is not the sort of peace we are used to; but it is the peace that we all need! It’s not the peace that comes from absence; it IS the peace that comes from PRESENCE, Jesus’ presence in our lives and our acknowledgement of it. Perhaps peace is realizing that Jesus is always with us and we have nothing to fear. Perhaps peace is the realization of the presence of the Spirit within us. And, far from doing nothing, that awareness and presence energizes us to action, to be Christ-like to others.

We have certainly plenty of time over the past year where things were quiet and peaceful, moments when we were completely alone with our thoughts. But how did we use that time? Did we give ourselves the opportunity to quietly be in the presence of the Spirit? Did we find God in the stillness of the moment?

Great Spirit, gift me with the tools to seek and to find peace of mind!