Simple Gifts

Praying at the Wailing Wall

Praying at the Wailing Wall

Mark 12:38-44

It looks like we are finally coming out of the darkness! Lights are turning on; businesses are opening! Definitely more cars on the street (not sure if that is a good thing or not)! Dining out, going to the movies, morning coffee at the Perk, even a date night looks promising!

But let’s not forget about all that we have endured to get to this point. All those months of making do with what we have, limiting our trips to the store and our contact with others! But, to be truthful, we really had a lot of time on our hands, time to think about what I have, what I want and what I really need. It’s been an opportunity to consider what’s really important in our lives and what things we can just discard.

Besides all the house-cleaning top to bottom and the sorting out of all the stuff we have accumulated over the years, it has been a time to really appreciate all we have and to realize how little we really need. It has been a time to recognize and contribute to those organizations that really help the poor, the homeless, the hungry, the disenfranchised, the belittled and the ignored.

Today’s Gospel has the familiar story of the poor woman praying in the Temple who gives what little she has back to God. What’s important to her is not what she doesn’t have but what she does! What matters to her is giving back to God in thanks for the simple gift of life. She sees that her real wealth lies in her capacity to love, to express her gratitude to God through generosity to others.

God, in His infinite love, gave each of us the gift of life! Every day we have the chance to express our thanks, our love. How do you plan to thank God today? How do you plan to use this gift of life?

Great Spirit, help me to see the world and its people through Your eyes!

If you find these Gospel reflections helpful, I invite you to visit my new blog “Gospel Reflections for Pandemic Times” to access today’s homily and those from the past.

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Scratching my head!

Storefronts, Bethlehem

Street Scene, Bethlehem

Mark 12:35-37

You ever have the experience of going to a teacher to get them to explain something they said in class? And the teacher provides a lengthy, confusing response. And you walk away even more confused and even more filled with questions than you did before? Yes, I know, many of my students had that happen when I talked about the “chair”. Even my grandsons are like: “please don’t go there; you’re making my head hurt”,

Often I was the one who offered too few words in explanation. I can’t begin to count how many times I would write a single word on a student’s report or homework assignment. VAGUE!!! Yes, I know, that was probably not very helpful!

In many ways, throughout the Gospels, Jesus does exactly that. He challenges us, makes us think and not just blindly swallow whatever He is saying. His parables always end with an unexpected twist that no one sees coming. He challenges us to rethink what it means to love, to be a neighbor, how to treat our enemies. Sometimes, most of the time, even the disciples are confused and have to ask Him later – can you explain that to us??

This is a short Gospel reading, only 2 verses. And yet I am scratching my head. The scribes say that the Christ is the Son of David but David calls the Christ LORD! So which is it? How can it be both? Jesus offers no answer or explanation. It is left to the crowd to consider what He meant. It is left to us to believe but that doesn’t necessarily mean to understand.

In the end, Jesus reminds us that following Him is not just simple lip-service. It is following Him with our whole heart, our whole mind and soul. Saying yes to Jesus is not just words but actions. It may be, at times, scratching my head in wonder. But it is always trusting in Jesus that He knows the way!

All You Need Is Love

Church of Dormition

Church of Dormition

Mark 12:28-34
There’s a video I am sure you have all seen, probably multiple times. A little boy running down the sidewalk yelling out “William” until he finally come together with his friend in a heart-warming don’t-let-go hug. It’s obvious that Covid has kept them separate and this is the first time those 2 best friends get to see each other in months. It’s an explosion of love and joy and you can’t help but tear up at their reunion! There is no questioning about where have you been, why didn’t you call me, why did you leave me! Only love!

Finally! After the last couple of days of Pharisees and Sadducees asking questions designed to trap Jesus and make Him look foolish, we finally get an honest question and a very direct answer! A scribe, an educated teacher of the Law, asks Jesus what is the greatest of the Commandments. He isn’t trying to trap Jesus; it seems he really wants to know Jesus' answer. Side note here, this is not about picking 1 of the 10 Commandments. There are 613 laws in the Torah and Jesus is being asked which is the greatest!

And Jesus’ response? LOVE! Love God and love your neighbor! It is not only the greatest commandment; it is the basis for all the Commandments! Let love direct your life, your words and actions!

Great Spirit – help me to walk a loving path today and every day! Teach me to see Your loving hand in all that I experience today!

Foolish Questions

Ruins of Magdala

Magdala

Mark 12:18-27

Could God make a rock so big and heavy that He couldn’t lift it? Who made God? Sound familiar? I can still picture the scene. The pastor stops in to our religion class and we proceed to pepper him with ‘what if” questions about God. It’s not that we really wanted an answer; we just were looking for a question that would stump him, leave him with a slightly puzzled look and no answer at all, all in an effort to rattle his composure.

Today it’s the Sadducees turn to try and get under Jesus’ skin by asking a ridiculous question about heaven. What if a woman ended up marrying 7 men (brothers)? Then who is she married to when she gets to heaven?

Let’s be clear; the Sadducees don’t even want an answer from Jesus; they just want to make Him look foolish. They don’t even believe in a resurrection. And Jesus’ response? Does He get angry or put them down? Does He berate them for asking such a silly question? No, He calmly gives them an answer, a real response.

You are thinking only in human terms – marriage, husbands and wives. Heaven is so beyond human understanding that you can’t even begin to comprehend it. What He means is that heaven is so completely beyond this human existence, so completely beyond anything we can imagine. It is living so totally in the presence of God that simple human desires are trivial. We think we know what love is; Jesus says wait until you get to heaven. Then you will know real love. We think we know what happiness is; just wait!

So if the fears and anxiety of these long 15 months have gotten to you, to us all, and there seems to be no end of bad news and hypocrisy and outright bigotry, just wait! Something better is coming!

A Flip of the Coin

Boat Chapel, Magdala

Boat Chapel, Magdala

Mark 12:13-17

There was a man who kept a garden in his back yard and every year would grow a variety of vegetables to help feed his family. But one year, for whatever reason, his garden completely failed, nothing grew at all. And yet his neighbor, his good friend, had an abundant harvest, loads of tomatoes, zucchini, etc. So, in his frustration and upset, he decided to steal from his neighbor. So late one night he went out into the darkness to steal from his neighbor’s garden.

But he didn’t go alone; he took along his little boy to keep a look-out in case anyone should come along. The man jumped over the fence with a large bag on his arm, and before commencing to take the corn he looked all around to make sure no one was watching, first to the left and then to the right, behind him and in front, and not seeing anyone, he was just about to start filling his bag. And tit was then that his son yelled out: Dad, You forgot to look up.

I have to give that dad a little bit of credit; he did get one thing right! He knew the difference between right and wrong; otherwise he wouldn’t have done the deed in the middle of the night. He knew the law and that, if he was caught, he could be arrested and charged with a crime. He knows he has responsibilities – to himself, to his family, to his community, to civil law – but he chooses to take a negative track on it – thinking only of himself and his physical and financial needs.

In a way, he was acting like the Pharisees in today’s Gospel – thinking only of himself. Probably a model citizen during the day in his words but in the darkness, his actions tell a completely different story. Those Pharisees weren’t interested in learning from Jesus; they were looking for a way to trap Him. And they thought they finally got Him! Should we pay taxes to Caesar?

They thought their question demanded an either/or answer. And no matter what answer Jesus gives, it would divide and anger the crowd. Their basic question completely missed the point. They were focused only on their human responsibilities, civil law, thinking only of themselves! They were only concerned with the “human image of Caesar”, just like the father in the story.

While the father, the Pharisees were so focused on the human side, on the IMAGE of Caesar, they all forgot they were made in the IMAGE of God! They forgot their responsibilities as a child of God.

But even the simplest of coins today, a penny, should remind us – United States of American on one side, In God We Trust on the other! Life isn’t about a simple flip of the coin, heads or tails. It’s a reminder to us that we have responsibilities not only to the left and the right, behind us and in front, but also responsibilities above, to our Father in Heaven,

We celebrate today the Feast of St. Justin. Born to educated Greek parents in Palestine around 100 AD, he is one of the first Christian writers and provides us with one of the first written accounts of how the Eucharist was celebrated in the First Century. Included below is part of that account. Amazing how things have remained the same!

“Having ended the prayers, we salute one another with a kiss. There is then brought to the president of the brethren bread and a cup of wine mixed with water; and he taking them, gives praise and glory to the Father of the universe, through the name of the Son and of the Holy Ghost, and offers thanks at considerable length for our being counted worthy to receive these things at His hands.

“And when he has concluded the prayers and thanksgivings, all the people present express their assent by saying Amen. This word Amen answers in the Hebrew language to ge’noito [so be it].

And when the president has given thanks, and all the people have expressed their assent, those who are called by us deacons give to each of those present to partake of the bread and wine mixed with water over which the thanksgiving was pronounced, and to those who are absent they carry away a portion.

For not as common bread and common drink do we receive these; but in like manner as Jesus Christ our Saviour, having been made flesh by the Word of God, had both flesh and blood for our salvation, so likewise have we been taught that the food which is blessed by the prayer of His word, and from which our blood and flesh by transmutation are nourished, is the flesh and blood of that Jesus who was made flesh.” – (First Apology, 66)

In Awe!

Hills of Judea near Bethlehem

Hills of Judea near Bethlehem

Luke 1:39-56

Ever met someone famous, a moment that left you in awe, dumbfounded? Maybe it was life-chanLuke 1:39-56

Ever met someone famous, a moment that left you in awe, dumbfounded? Maybe it was life-changing, life-altering. Perhaps it was a movie star or sports legend or a religious figure like the Dalai Lama. Most of you know how much of a sci-fi nut I am – movies, tv shows, books. And my all-time favorite novel – DUNE – and all its sequels! Written by Frank Herbert, it is a sprawling epic of science fiction, religious undertones and adventure. I was lucky to meet Frank once at a book signing. I brought along my first-ever copy of Dune and he signed it! Wow! And what did I say to him; what did I say to this master of the written word, to this sci-fi giant? Not one word! Nothing! I was so in awe that I couldn’t even blurt out a simple thank you!

We read today of another historic meeting, although one on a scale far beyond any book-signing encounter . This is the Visitation – Mary and her cousin Elizabeth meeting for the first time after their miraculous pregnancies. Two soon-to-be mothers – one carrying the Saviour and the other carrying His Prophet! Both of them fully aware of God entering their lives in a special way, giving each of them a unique role in His Plan and both of them fully trusting in Him. And their words to each other fully reflect their faith in God, their love for each other and the goodness of the Lord.

Often we tend to focus on Mary and her Magnificat prayer. But what about Elizabeth? Listen to the joy in her words to Mary! Hear her humility and faith and her Spirit-filled words: “Most blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb. And how does this happen to me, that the mother of my Lord should come to me? That first meeting – so full of joy and hope and love.

So perhaps we could reflect a bit today on our first meeting – our first encounter with the Lord! Was it our First Communion? An experience in nature – that perfect sunset or the billions of stars on a clear night? Maybe it was a sad loss of a loved one or the birth of a child? What was your first encounter with the Lord? And as you reflect on that, consider when the next encounter will happen!

God Above, Beside, Within

Church in Gethsemane

Praying at Gethsemane

Matthew 28:16-20

Today we celebrate the Feast of Holy Trinity, a key church doctrine – 3 Persons in 1 God – Father, Son and Holy Spirit, one of the great mysteries of our faith.

We hear in today’s readings a description of those 3 persons. The First Reading – God the Father, the Creator and Law-Giver. The God so far above us all that we bow down before Him in reverence and obedience. The Second Reading – the Holy Spirit – God who brings us peace and love and fellowship. The Spirit or encouragement inside all of us by virtue of our Baptism and Confirmation. And the Gospel - God the Son – Jesus Christ – who took on human form to redeem us of our sins and lead us to eternal life. Jesus who walked the same earth as all of us.

Essentially the Trinity is a relationship – the love between father and son and that love so intense that it is embodied in the Holy Spirit. A relationship that, through Baptism, has included us as children of God, brothers and sisters of Jesus, filled with the Holy Spirit, a relationship that grows and develops as we grow and develop.

In simplest terms – we can see the Trinity in this way:

God the Father – above us – creating us, guiding us and teaching us right and wrong, reminding us of when we falter, the just judge, loving us even when we mess up

God the Son – beside us, among us – Jesus who shared in this earthly life, who walked and sat together with his disciples and shared a meal

God the Holy Spirit – within us – coming upon the disciples at Pentecost, filling us and them with love and the fire of faith.

In some ways it reminds me of the relationship between a father and his children, a relationship of love, a relationship that grows and changes over time. It reminds me of my relationship with my dad!

God the Father, above us! Literally as a child looking up to the father who created me Literally, as a child, looking to my dad for understanding right from wrong. I was not always the most obedient of sons; there were plenty of times when I would test the limits of my Dad’s patience and get into trouble. All it took was for my mom to say – wait til your dad get home! My dad was not only the creator of the rules; he was also the enforcer, the judge. And judgement was always swift and effective!

God the Son among us, walking beside us. Later in life, when my grandmother passed away and I saw my Dad cry for the very first time. It gave me the opportunity to grieve with him, to comfort him, to stand with him in his sorrow no longer as a child but as a friend.

God the Spirit within us. Gathering with my Mom and family for the first family dinner after my Dad passed away and taking his chair at the dining room table. I proceeded to tell a string of my corny jokes and I suddenly realized, in that moment, that I sounded just like Dad. And realizing that from that moment on, I carry him with me inside. He is always with me, guiding me, inspiring me, encouraging me.

If that is the love between a human father and child, just imagine the love of God the Father for us his children. We are loved by him unconditionally. By virtue of our Baptism and Confirmation we are all sons and daughters of God, brothers and sisters of Jesus, filled with the Holy Spirit. God above us, God beside us, God within us!

Who’s In Charge?

Altar in the chapel at Cana

Chapel at Cana

Mark 11:27-33

t happens much more than we realize. We get up in the morning full of ideas and plans for the day – work, clean, cut the grass, do the dishes, prepare dinner, etc. And then we get that call. Maybe it’s a friend whose car just died and they need a lift. Maybe it’s a family member with a medical emergency or a sudden need for you to watch the kids. No matter what, we drop our plans and meet the need! No matter what we plan to do or want to do, life happens! We like to think we are in charge but that is not always the case.

The Pharisees in today’s Gospel ask a valid question of Jesus. Where is all your teachings and ministry coming from? Is it just your thoughts and ideas? Are you a prophet? Are you a follower of John the Baptist? Are you proclaiming that you are doing God’s work? Who gave you the authority to say all these things? Who’s in charge here? You or God?

Now granted, the Pharisees were only looking to trap Jesus but the questions are still important! And they should resonate with us as well. Who’s in charge of your life? You or God? When life throws hard trials and difficult choices at you, do you rush your response and forget to think of others? Or do you take the time to step back and pray? Ask the Father for wisdom and guidance? Who is really in charge?

I Don’t Give a Fig

Fresh zucchini

A Bountiful Harvest

Mark 11:11-26

It’s just about time to put in our garden. That means it’s just about time to plant zucchini. And then, come August and September, I can start pulling the zucchini and begin my baking binge. But there is a lot to do in-between now and then. You can’t just plant the seeds one day, wait 3 months, and voila there it is! It takes work and time and a bit of faith. But in the end, it is worth it to go out into the yard and harvest the crop.

Zucchini bread

Baking Binge

That is not what happens in today’s Gospel. Jesus is looking for something to eat. He goes to a fig tree but there was nothing but leaves. It was not the season for figs. The same holds true for any garden we plant; every vegetable and fruit has its season. We can’t rush it; we can’t make it grow any faster. It takes time and patience.

But there is also a lesson here about faith as well! So let this be our thought for the day. Zucchini has a season; tomatoes have a season. Even green grass and flowers have a season. But not faith! Faith is always in season! Faith is not about convenience, but commitment. It is about persistence and growth and patience! And the reward is a bountiful harvest!

The Deacon’s New Clothes

Ordination 2015

Ordination 2015

Mark 10:46-52

Six years ago last week I was ordained a Permanent Deacon. Part of the Rite of Ordination included Investiture where I put on the stole and dalmatic of a deacon for the first time. I was assisted in this vesting ceremony by my wife Ginger and my pastor and friend Father Neil. Needless to say it was an emotional and profound moment where symbolically I left behind my life as a lay person and put on my ‘new clothes’, my new ministry as a member of the clergy.

Something similar seems to be happening in today’s Gospel. Bartimaeus, a blind man, is sitting along the road outside Jericho begging for a few coins. He hears that Jesus is coming and he cannot contain his excitement. People try to quiet him down but to no avail. He keeps shouting for Jesus. “Have pity on me.” When Jesus calls to him, Bartimaeus immediately gets up, throws off his cloak and rushes to Jesus. And Jesus cures him of his blindness.

Bartimaeus, in his fervor, throws off his cloak! He sets aside his old life of begging and blindness and he puts on the clothes of faith! And his life is forever changed! Isn’t that also what happens with each of us at Baptism. Original Sin is washed away. Our former life of sin is set aside and we are given a new white garment to symbolize our new life as a child of God.

We are called to wear that new white garment every day, to display our faith in words and in action. And we are called, like Bartimaeus, to follow Jesus!

Be Careful What You Ask For

Mount of Beatitudes

Mount of Beatitudes

Mark 10:32-45

Ever run for class president? Or maybe pushed hard to lead your small group on its Final Project? What about lobbying to be the manager of the basketball team? And then, good gracious, you actually won! You got the job! And then reality settles in! Oh boy, this is gonna be work. You thought it was all about the title and now everyone is looking at you for direction, for leadership. No one told me I would have to sacrifice time and energy. I thought the title was just kind of ‘ceremonial.’ How can we be so focused on the trappings of power that we completely miss the boat about what it’s going to take to keep it.

That is what’s happening in today’s Gospel. Jesus has just revealed to His disciples that they are going up to Jerusalem where He will be arrested, condemned, mocked, tortured and crucified! No flowery language, no story, just the simple blunt words! You would think they would all be horrified, terrified. And yet James and John jump in and ask for a favor. Can we have places of honor in Your kingdom, one on the right and one on the left? No signs of sadness at Jesus’ words! No attempt to talk Him out of going to Jerusalem! Apparently blinded by ambition or power, they are in complete denial about the meaning of Jesus’ words. You have to wonder about Jesus’ reaction. Were you even listening? Did you hear what I said? And the other disciples? They aren’t too pleased either. They became indignant!

Such a situation, unfortunately, is not foreign to us. Most of us have seen something like this at work. Someone so intent on their own ambition and advancement that they stab others in the back in order to get that promotion or pay raise! So focused on themselves that they refuse to see what is right in front of them! So consumed with ambition, they lose sight of what’s really important.

It is up to Jesus to remind the disciples that His mission has nothing to do with power or thrones. It is a mission to others! It is dedication to a life of service and sacrifice for the love of our neighbor!

We celebrate today the Feast of St. Philip Neri, known as the Second Apostle of Rome, after St. Peter. He loved walking the streets and engaging passer byes in conversation. He had an outgoing personality and witty sense of humor. He had a knack for converting good conversation into good actions. He would often lead his followers to hospitals to serve the sick. He was, quite simply, an evangelist who loved to share the Gospel message and encourage others to be of service. As Jesus instructs us today in the Gospel, St Philip looked beyond the trappings of wealth and power and the evils of greed and envy and focused instead on a life of service and sacrifice.

Great Spirit, help me today to treat everyone as if they were You!

Sacrifice!

Via Dolorosa, Jerusalem

Via Dolorosa, Jerusalem

Mark 10:28-31

My Dad began working in a little country store at the age of 16 and retired from that same store over 50 years later. It was part gas station, part ice cream stand, part deli and liquor store, post office, supermarket and local gathering spot. After hours, it was also home for a long string of brotherly games of poker. During all those 50 some years, my Dad ran the store on his own, hardly ever took a vacation, and worked roughly from 5 in the morning to 10 at night, at least 6 days a week. During the school year we basically say him only at dinnertime for about an hour. In the last 10 years of the store’s existence, he was also doing double-duty as the postmaster. And yet in spite of all the hardships, somehow out of that tiny little store, he managed to put all four of his children through high school and college.

I have yet to figure out how he managed to accomplish it. And throughout all those years, I never heard a single complaint or bemoaning of his condition. He simply did what he needed to do to support and nurture his family. I asked him once near the end of his life – what would he have done different? His reply was simple – no regrets, no second thoughts! What sacrifice! What dedication and love of family! And the reward? A full life, a life well-lived and a loving and grateful family!

Sacrifice and reward! We hear something similar in today’s Gospel! Jesus has just finished telling His disciples that it would be easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter heaven. And now Peter protests ‘Wait a minute, we’ve given up everything to follow you. What’s our reward? Do we even get a reward? What about us?

Peter and the Apostles really have given up everything – family, home, lifestyle and job – all to follow Jesus! Have they sacrificed much? Yes, of course! And the reward? 100 times more than anything you have given up! The Kingdom of Heaven!

What about us? A life of faith is not an easy one. There is suffering; there are sacrifices to be made. And in the times when we feel lost or lacking in hope, let us find the strength to continue in the example of Jesus’ sacrifice on the cross and His promise of eternal life to His faithful disciples.

Help Me, Mom!

Church of Holy Sepulchre, Jerusalem

Church of Holy Sepulchre, Jerusalem

John 19:25-34

I remember when I moved into my first apartment. Truth be told, I was completely clueless about keeping a clean space, much less knowing how to live (and cook) on my own. It was my mom who got everything neat and tidy with a massive cleaning effort. And it was my Mom who really took care of washing clothes whenever I brought them home. I learned, little by little; but it took the example of my mom to show me the way.

Can anyone even count, much less remember, all the times our mothers have come to our aid when we needed it. Caring for us when we was sick, helping us with that difficult math homework, supporting us when we moved away from home, listening to us when life got difficult, protecting us when I fell and skinned our knee. Most of the time, it was a dirty, thankless job but she did it anyway and she never looked for thanks or recognition. She did it all out of love.

We celebrate today the Feast of Mary, Mother of the Church. It is a reminder to us all that Mary is not only Jesus’ Mother, but our own. Today’s Gospel tells us the same story. At the cross, Jesus tells John that Mary is now his mother and he is her son. By extension, we have all become Mary’s children and Mary truly is Mother of the Church.

And if we run to our own mothers in times of trouble, times of pain and anguish, so too are we called to run to Mary, to pray for her intercession in times when our soul needs comfort and encouragement. Certainly during these past few days of violence and unrest, of fear for one’s safety and well-being, at a time when we pray for guidance and leadership, we call to Mary. Help us to heal our wounds, hear us in this troubled time, support our worried souls, and be with us as we search for meaning and peace. Aho!